1. Have you made a definitive choice to change your own parallel reality?
Have you acquired the necessary database, or have you been acting “in the dark” (because someone said so or I have read somewhere)? Have you observed others, learned from them, or challenged every unwanted situation, foreign idea, unpleasant condition, etc.? Have you used the experience of others, or have you acted as you are accustomed to? Have you read all the books mentioned in this module? Have you watched the lecture (how many times?) and any other video related to the topic? Have you added anything beyond what is mentioned in the module? Have you discovered additional sources to confirm and expand upon yourself?
2. Have you practiced diligently, did you stop at the difficulties in the beginning, or did you decide to reach the end (because it is your own choice)?
Did you engage your full concentration during your training? Did you learn self-discipline in order to achieve satisfaction? In what moods did you falter or rise during practice? Did you recall how you learned to ride a bike, how many times you fell with the desire to achieve the preferred result? How many times did you give up and start over (both for the module and the bike)? Have you reached the ecstasy of swimming peacefully in the waters of your own choice? I am making a choice for change and gathering data for its realization.
3. Have you made this choice your habit?
Have you explored the moments when this choice brought you pleasure?
Have you noticed how you transfer your experience from this habit to all similar states? Have you understood that the initial efforts, stress, and pain have turned into pleasure and passion after a certain number of workouts? Have you started applying the newly acquired habit to all other challenges that arise in your daily life? If you’ve reached that point, have you noticed that you now take pride in the new habit? Now ask yourself the question, “From this perspective, isn’t what I discovered anew once again a limitation, has it become an addiction?” Do you have the desire to continue learning new things, or have you already decided that you will use only what is familiar to you because you feel pleasure and feel good in its application zone? Have you started denying and resenting the possibility of changing this choice (focus, result)? If so, you are already dependent, and your choice has become a comfortable comfort zone.
Now it is time to consider a change to go through the cycle of choice, pleasure, and habit again. As you continue to move along this spiral of life, you will always feel grateful, capable, and happy!